Common Expectations

• "I will get a high-paying job immediately."
• "Accommodation will be easy."
• "Sponsorship is guaranteed if I study hard."
• "People will be friendly and easy to socialise with."

Reality

• The job market for students is competitive
• Housing is expensive and difficult for newcomers
• Sponsorship requires specific criteria and timing
• Many people are friendly but reserved
• Weather can affect mood and productivity

Why Reality Feels Hard

You are comparing:

• Your old life (where you were comfortable)
• With a new environment requiring constant learning

This emotional friction is normal and temporary.